Nice, not slutty, winter style for my daughter, aged 7

My seven year old daughter is very beautiful. I am biased. But she is. She has long straight blonde hair with just a hint of a curl at the ends, big beautiful eyes- just the right shade of blue for her complexion and the most perfect skin. She is very pretty. And kind. And clever. And funny and all the incredible things a seven year old girl should be.

 

What she is not, is a trashy slut. Or a teenager. Or frankly a lap dancer.

What am I talking about? Well, Grace, is very tall for her age. At 135cm she is the average height of a 10 year old. She wears size 10-11 years. And much to my considerable horror and complete frustration, generally, all the clothes aimed at this age group seem far, far too old for a ten year old, let alone a seven year old! Of course Grace is not the only tall girl out there. I cannot be the only parent who faces this battle every shopping trip.

 

I am not going to terrorise anyone with the abominations I find offered, instead, I'm going to show something of my solution.

 

My daughters wear lots of Boden. Lots of Boden. But it does get expensive and as it happens in the last few weeks all my three have had growth spurts & suddenly everyone needed a new wardrobe! So, I found myself looking for alternatives that would be pretty & girly, but practical, not too fussy, at a reasonable price and most importantly, age appropriate.

 

I found many odd pieces but I live in a very rural area, so resort to online shopping almost exclusively and paying a £4 delivery charge for a single item, at say, £10 is far beyond what I am willing to do!

So I found, or should I say, rediscovered, Vertbaudet..

And I managed to find them just as the sale began! These are some of the pieces I bought;

 

 

 

Dress, £11.50

 

Dress, £11.50

 

I also bought a 3 pack of coordinating polo necks that were £8.80! And both dresses happily go with all the blue/tealish greys in the pack. The genius of these dresses is that they are a fairly thick cotton. Therefore they are perfect with long sleeve tops & thick tights in winter but equally, with a chunky cardigan on cooler spring days & even alone in high summer!

 

 

I spent £30 approximately, including delivery(after lots of lovely discounts) and in the parcel was a voucher for £10 off a £30 spend! So of course I went shopping again! This time I bought some tights, a gilet & a couple of tops! All for £35 delivered!

Top,£5.50

Gilet, £18

 

 

So I am happy I've managed to find some pretty, yet practical clothes that don't project some sort of pseudo teenage image on to my daughter!

 

 

 

 

Love Kitty X

 

 

 

 

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Christmas List -Item Number 3

I started my Christmas List a couple of weeks ago, you can read about it here

I was browsing the Marks and Spencer Christmas gift guide when I came across this little beauty;

 

Collection Pure Cashmere Embellished Jumper £129

I am always wary of high street cashmere, the quality does tend to be very patchy, but I bought a bargain cashmere cardigan from M&S in he sale a few years back & it was brilliant! I am hoping this one will be just as good. Now, £129 is not cheap for a jumper, but it is pure cashmere & as I said before, I feel Christmas is a time for luxury & indulgence. That is why this gorgeous item is number 3 on my Christmas List.

 

Have you made your list yet?

 

 

Love Kitty x

 

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#NYNYStyleProject

The other day I came across a brilliant idea on the rather lovely Modern Mummy blog. The October New Year, New You Style Project. Always up for a bit of style fun & inspiration, it thought I'd give it a go!

The concept is simple; find the days prompt, take a pic, Instagram & Tweet it! All using the #NYNYStyleProject tag. I had a little problem that I lost the card reader attachment for my iPad & so couldn't post the photos til today, but I did do the prompt on the actual day.

I thought I would share my progress ;

 

Day 1. At The Back Of The Wardrobe.

 

 

Dreadfully unflattering photo, taken in my sons bedroom, as my youngest was napping in mine, but still, cannot detract from the fabulous Matthew Williamson top. I love Williamson, even his questionable stint at Pucci bought some magnificent pieces out. I have had this mainline piece for many years. It is one of the last vestiges of my 'Pre-Children Wardrobe' and one I will never part with. Hand dyed silk it literally is a work of art. It is also from one of his very earliest collections so who knows, maybe in the V&A one day... I can't honestly tell you the last time I wore it, definitely pre motherhood! I wore it out this time, for a friends birthday & felt terribly fun & not at all my age! Success!

 

Day 2. Favourite Florals.

 

 

 

Having lived through both the 80's (Laura Ashley) & 90's (grunge floral) I really don't do floral. But I do love cherry blossom! This is an old H&M scarf that's a little too thin & short to wear as a scarf so I like to accessorise my bags with it. Here it is on my favourite bag, D Bag, by Tods. The bedspread is my daughters & is by Cath Kidston.

 

 

Day 3. Wooden.

 

 

On the Friday school run, I wore my beautiful, rich mahogany coloured patent peep toed heels by Nine West. Elegant, comfortable, chic & oh so high! Perfect in these autumn days!

 

Day 4. Bright and Bold.

What else but Dior? The only red for me (since they discontinued 'Griote' back in the 1990's) Tres, Tres Dior. Just the right amount of blue, although in this pictures lighting it appears more tomato. It is not. It is perfect. But I didn't leave the house today. So husband was left wondering why I was making all the effort!

Tomorrow is 'Supermarket Chic' & I cannot wait!

 

Are you joining in?

 

 

Love Kitty x

 

 

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Santa Baby

You know that song, Santa Baby, by Eartha Kitt? When I was little, I grew up dreaming & hoping that one day, I too would be 'Santa, Baby-ed'. The idea of a grown man lavishing me with expensive, wonderful gifts was too exciting & so, every year I become slightly obsessed with Christmas, presents & that song. I mean, who wouldn't want a their Christmas tree trimmed with "decorations bought at Tiffany"? And whilst even I recognise that part of the song are ridiculous, (chances of me getting the deeds to a diamond mine-zero) some elements are just incredible & tantalising("slip a sable under the tree, for me."-Yes Please!)

I love Christmas. I've been planning it since before the last one! All the shopping for my children was finished by the end of September & all the gifts for family & friends have been planned & in most cases, ordered. All my menus have been planned & food ordered. My decorations are safely boxed ready for my huge annual clean on November 29th & my decoration day on November 30th so that when everyone wakes up on December 1st, they can open their advent calendars in a Christmassy wonderland!

So really, the only thing left to do is to make my Christmas List. I believe that Christmas is a time for luxury & a little indulgence, so with that in mind, this beautiful scarf is first on my list!

 

 

Louis Vuitton Monogram Shawl, in Dune £355

Ok, it's not cheap, but as I said, luxury & indulgence. I will get lots of use from it, as with all my Vuitton pieces, they will be loved, looked after & passed to my children. And whilst not quite a sable, it is still immeasurably beautiful & elegant.

 

I'll share some more items from my list in the coming weeks & days- yes, it will take that long!

 

So what's on your Christmas List? Have you been good all year? With the promise on heavenly treats like these in my stocking I've been an angel all year....

 

Love Kitty x

 

 

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The Perfect Mac for an Hourglass

Every spring & autumn I have the same dilemma; too warm for a coat, too rainy for a cardigan.

I need a mac. And so my quest has begun. Here are a few I'm considering;

 

Sara Mac by Hobbs £159.99

 

Rainy Day Mac by boden £119

 

Classic Trench by Gap, £60

 

 

I love the classic trench shape, but I am a short hourglass shape so it have to be mindful that something doesn't, a) hang below my knees -at 5ft3 I really don't need to look like I've shrunk. And b) make me look like I'm wearing a tent. As little extra fabric as humanly possible! After literally years of searching I have finally admitted to myself that with my height & shape, I'm never going to look like the Parisien chic walking elegance I so dearly want to emulate. Instead I've accepted that I should look in a slightly different direction, which has bought me to these;

 

Pure Cotton Cropped Mac, M&S £50

 

 

And then there is this fantastic little number! From 'The Collection', by Debenhams. It's actually the cheapest at only £30 in their sale but for me, it is almost perfect. A chic, neutral colour, fits just above the top of the thigh (even for me as it comes in petite!) no, too fancy detailing or pattern to date it. And even though it is double breasted, it is low cut so that should be sympathic to my cleaveage, not suffocating.

 

I love it. This really could be 'the one'. My years long quest could really be over. I'm going to buy it tomorrow & see!

 

I'll do a post so you can see what you think.

 

 

Love Kitty x

 

 

 

 

 

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